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Aha, this was great! It was fun contemplating B Roy’s definitions. In particular, her definitions for The Good, The True, and The Beautiful evoked some smiles and giggles in me 🤭

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I see Bonnie's definitions as a very reasonable, as you say, starting point. But a starting point for what, is an important question to me. I don't see this as a starting point for us to all come together on a single set of definitions, albeit evolving ones (I guess you don't either, but just to be clear). I do see this as one stake in the ground for a process, that I call “ontological commoning”, whereby each one of us can get to explore and share our own set of meanings — our personal constructs, to use the language of George Kelly — and to develop an underlying shared language and culture in which we can meaningfully relate across our variety, our diversity, of meanings. There is something so affirming about having someone else really see one's own meaning system, one's meaning structure, whatever that is, and this is not a space for competition, but of openness: because to really see another person's conceptual map necessarily involves opening up one's own map to potential change, to growth, or maybe to decay, in some cases! Letting go; letting come (to echo Otto Scharmer). This, to me, is what stage transitions are all about. There is not one given set of stages. There is not one “correct” model: neither of Kegan, nor Wilber, nor yet Roy! And again I'm guessing you agree here; there is no argument, just expression. To me, all so-called “stage transitions” are unique and personal. Every time someone says, in their heart, something like “now I see things new, differently, my life will not be the same again in the future” — that is the moment of new life. It is that movement, that ever-renewed life, that I love.

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Archetypes are tricky, there are so many ways we speak about it that it is sometimes difficult to get a clear signal. Although Bonnitta is correct in that they are psychological structures, they are not necessarily adopted in early childhood, although certain archetypes can rise in prominence and influence at that time (or anytime in our lives). Here's a quote from Jung I reference in a post I wrote on archetypes, it sums things up nicely:

“Archetypes are systems of readiness for action, and at the same time images and emotions. They are inherited with the brain structure, indeed they are its psychic aspect.” - C.G. Jung, "Mind and Earth," CW 10 (from https://alyssapolizzi.substack.com/p/hiking-with-artemis)

There's much more to say on this topic, but I'll leave it there for now. Appreciate this offering, Bonnitta and Peter.

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Sep 4Liked by Peter N Limberg

She defines both "Daemon" and "Eros" as "excess ______ energy". Excess in relation to what? Excess within an individual or an assemblage point? Excess within the manifold of reality?

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In the video, Bonnitta makes a claim that (paraphrasing) predictive processing doesn't come online until age of 3 or so. Does she mean that the world model isn't sophisticated enough to make sense of things yet by that point? Because the process of world model formation surely starts earlier.

I'm also curious about the causal directions on her 3d-model of self. I guess depth is prior to expression and identification (paraphrasing here again, hope I'm clear).

I get inspired to do my own take on these terms. Let's see what the future holds.

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Sep 4·edited Sep 4Liked by Peter N Limberg

Nice set to consider.

Felt -sense is what I would called Daimonion - the felt sense of a message form one's Daimon..

Also is there a place for the super-ego ?- what I would call the inner sophist or demagogue - a part of the whole self that relates words only to other words most of the time, but has a keen sense of what is commonly acceptable...

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Love this. When eating alphabet soup, it’s normal have “poop” leftovers

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I like the word space but I prefer SPACE.

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